The SITuation

In Episode #22, Kelsey and Vanessa ponder what it means to choose joy and live fulfilling, meaningful lives or doing what they should.

We’ve all been told what we SHOULD be doing, heard who we should be, and told all the things we should choose and what success should look like.

When you live in SHOULD it impacts your health and your life. When you are trying to fit into the vision of who you should be instead of being who you truly are, it could burn you out, dull your light, and even become soul crushing.

Performing the should isn’t sustainable.

What if we asked ourselves what we actually want and then choose it? What if we chose our joy over a should?

Have you stopped to consider what it might be like if you stripped off all the SHOULDS?

Kelsey and Vanessa reminisce on what the global pandemic and the last year has taught them about their definition of success and shedding their shoulds. They dive into some of the personal growth and change they experienced....

In this episode Kelsey explores what it truly takes to have more money … and blows her own mind in the process.

Warning: This episode of the podcast comes with powerful medicine. (How powerful? So powerful that Kelsey actually had to stop in the middle and give herself FIVE days to integrate.)

The Question: 

• What am I refusing to be that if I would be it would create too much money in my life?

Follow up Questions: 

• What have I been unwilling to be judged for? 
• What judgements am I carrying?

The past two weeks Kelsey has been exploring these questions. Now they’ve got her manipulating energy, creating the feelings she wants to feel, and being open to receiving too much money. 

Kelsey shares her deep awareness about how she’s been being unwilling and how she has sabotaged money’s ability to find its way to her. She also talks about her $2000 error priceless wake up call.

 What comes up when you ask yourself this question? Grab...

Are you struggling to let go of people or things that are no longer serving you?

A lot of us have anxiety when it comes to letting go of things or people in our lives.

Maybe it’s that table you bought years ago that just doesn't feel good in your space.

Maybe it's relationships you keep hanging onto, even though deep down you know you should cut dies with them...

Maybe, like Vanessa, it’s a handwoven rug that your babcia made for you when you were fifteen.

Or maybe it’s just years of clutter you’ve shoved in your closets and drawers that you swore you would get rid of or organize, but has piled up so much that your drawers are literally barfing them out.